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faerywyrm

7mo

I am very honest. I find it's easier to listen to their questions and answer them. I don't push them into acceptance, but allow them to decide for themselves how much they want to know. Anyone who doesn't want to know and understand isn't friend material and doesn't matter as much to me in the long run
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Bre19

7mo

so true
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Cat501

6mo

I wish I could do that, but a lot of people don't understand BPD, so I just tend to mask it at work/out and about. I've been called a psycho before when trying to explain what goes on in my head. It's just been easier for me if I hide.
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hydroepilepic21

7mo

I've given up. They think I'm just making things up.
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Jessica.alikehealth

7mo

😥
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Bre19

7mo

I'm so sorry
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Strawberry62

7mo

😥
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Cat501

6mo

I feel you, you're definitely not alone. I'm always making it up or a psycho when I talk about it so I just hide mine.
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BoneDustWoman

7mo

It depends on how much they need to know. Mostly, I just give a rundown of my relevant symptoms and any accommodations I need at the moment. Or I'll say that I have a neuroimmune illness and leave it at that.
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TheRadicalEdward

7mo

I think it's best to describe how you feel and what things are like on a relatable level, so that others can understand.
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Bre19

7mo

fair enough
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Chronicallyenby

7mo

If I am given negativity, I offer to pull out my "medical rap sheet." If they are actually serious and curious, I go in a little with the larger issues but not into details until we know each other more.
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Bre19

6mo

understandable
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BabyMushroom

7mo

I tend to over share because I'm constantly worried about being judged harshly and I hate people staring at me/mean mugging me.
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Bre19

7mo

I felt this
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rainbows1

6mo

This is one I really struggle with
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Bre19

6mo

that's fair
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Pumpkin4649

6mo

I explain to my close friend because she frequently asks me. Otherwise, I don't explain much to other people. I feel good about having at least one person who knows well about my condition. If you dont have no friends to share, I recommend a counsellor. :)
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Bre19

6mo

thats fair
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shady89

6mo

I've never found a good way. I've got a couple siblings who won't talk to me anymore (religious and think it's demon possession) otherwise I just avoid people
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Bre19

6mo

fair enough
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billyhowson42

6mo

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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warriormama

6mo

At this point I don't...people don't care if they can't see it around here
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Bre19

6mo

fair
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Cat501

6mo

I used to overshare with people, until I was told I was psycho or just making it up. So I keep mine hidden as best I can.

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