yes absolutely , i have ocd and one of my main obessions is relationships. my adhd definitely makes it more difficult to emotionally regulate

Yes for sure, even though adhd can 100% look like another disguised disorder i talked to my therapist and she confirmed that adhd absolutely does this as well as Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria which can contribute to emotional dis-regulation

Wow. I did not realize there was so much overlap in ADHD and OCD. I definitely experience some symptoms of rOCD. Especially in rumination and uncertainty of whether I'm in a relationship that is making me worse or better. I spend an unacceptable amount of time in my head about these things. To cope I try to rationalize and refocus my attention elsewhere when I become aware that I'm fixating, but up until reading this conversation thread I had no idea that this could be rOCD.