I need your honest thoughts and opinions, please. this is kind of a rambling one. please bear with me. I'm quite upset. If someone has developed anxiety and panic disorder but has taken control of it with the proper avenues over learning what works and what doesn't for over 20 years. Would it be ok for someone they have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and the anxiety was very well known even during the friends to dating now relationship... would it be ok to say during a fight in a very negative way "you have mental issues " and when asked "wtf does that mean? what issues" and it's said "your fucking panic disorder is a mental fucking issue. my anger is just my attitude. I'm normal" ... how would you feel being the person with anxiety? what would you do or say? knowing the person saying it knows how much it hurts when it's said due to multiple discussions. I need your opinions and thoughts please