I’m new to this app, but someone suggested I talk here and try to get some help. I’m in this wonderful relationship with the love of my life, he’s my soul mate and best friend. I go to him for everything and I do things for the both of us. Our mindsets, values, and goals align together. We’ve been together for 2 years and 3 months now. Suddenly, I got a thought telling me that I am no longer in love with my partner. I brushed it off, but the thoughts come back up again, “you don’t love him anymore” “why don’t you feel in love with him?” “You should break up with him”.. its gotten to a point where I started feeling like I actually dont feel as in love, that there are some times where I do love him and some times where I dont. It’s frustrating because there is nothing wrong in my relationship, we supposed one another and we both love each other. But why am I feeling this way? Its making me feel awful, he had a great heart and compassion. I talked to him about it and he told me that if I ever force myself to love him, then its best to end it. But I never have forced myself, I choose to love him and know that deep down in my heart, I know I love him. But again, these thoughts had confused me, broke me down, and have me affecting me little by little everyday. Anyone got advice? I don’t want this relationship to end, I want to continue this relationship. Yes I know I am young, but I dont see myself with anyone else, I dont want anyone else except him.