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ChaoticBuns

Updated 1y ago

Coping with Flashbacks: Tips and Tricks

for those who experience flashbacks, what are things that bring you back to the present moment and soothes you?

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Some techniques that help people come back to the present moment and soothe them during flashbacks include holding an ice cube, listening to familiar music or watching a favorite show, using grounding...See More

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RedandBlackFan

1y

Loud music
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ChaoticBuns

1y

yess I've found this helps sometimes
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NDbookBae

1y

I second this
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faerywyrm

1y

I find that my service dog is the best at bringing me back. I also practice mindfulness.
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spicysugar

1y

If you are able, I play this game called "What is that song". I'll lay on my stomach and my partner or in the past my mother would lightly but firmly pat to the tune of a familiar song. It give stimulation and also gets your brain going on trying to figure out the song. This isn't as great if you're GONE in flashbacks, like actively feeling the flashback, but it helps calming down for me personally. Another way to play is to tap the tune on your fingers. Though this does take a separate person, I've never heard it before on an app like this so I thought I'd share
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spicysugar

1y

Like I feel like all I ever hear is "splash cold water on your face." "Find one item with each of the colors of the rainbow in the room you're in" or square breathing, so I've always been like ok those aren't working, what else? And usually from professionals I just get the "idk. Maybe you're doing them wrong?" So ye. Hope this helps
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KitTheKat

1y

For me, baking- bread especially. It takes time and focus, but not too much energy and i find it to be very grounding. If I feel angry, I can channel it when mixing and airing out the dough. If I'm sad, I shape it into something new and remind myself that I can make good things. If I'm scared, I can smell it in the oven and feel comforted, then afterwards I share it if possible and again feel comforted and safe in spending time with others. Everyone has differemt coping mechanisms, but that's one of mine :)
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RedandBlackFan

1y

What can you ask for when you’ve been on different pain meds for fifteen years and you get used to it and they say there’s not a lot more options? The pain just seems to get worse every day. Idk what to do bc if you look up something and ask about if that will work they treat you as a drug seeker. So frustrating!
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SYPHERSHADE

1y

I wish I knew? I have Flashbacks. But I can't just bring myself out of them they play out and I'm rattled after words
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thats.rough.buddy

1y

If I'm with someone, I have them hug me really tight and tell me "You're safe. You're in the present. It won't happen again." If I'm alone, I try to look around and point out 5 things I enjoy about my surroundings, and try to think of other things I enjoy while reminding myself I'm in the present which will never be like the past.
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SYPHERSHADE

1y

that sounds amazing. Your awesome! I pray I can find someone like that some day. But 4 now I'll do my best to stay busy and move forward
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Mattchewy

1y

I text my girlfriend, she is my rock, but she cant always text 24/7
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dragonfly2014

1y

I hug my cat when im at home or my dog depending on my cats mood. If I'm at not home music, singing or laughing I'll try and find a podcast and listen to it.
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Bradbeer69

1y

Closing my eyes and blocking out the outside world
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sassy_hacker

1y

This is a very good question, to me, I have multiple voices in my head so there is at least one sensible one telling me to snap out of it ❤️
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Penguinmama

1y

Hearing my partner's voice & him reassuring me that I'm safe & not in harm's way in any capacity. It takes a little while for me to "re orient" myself after episodes, but he is very patient & understanding as I go through this on a near daily basis.. But he also makes sure I take my medication to help me combat this before bedtime...

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