As a married person, it’s not easy. However, if they’re making you feel guilty for something you can’t control, that’s straight up toxic. I’ve been there, in past relationships. Your s/o needs to understand that while you CAN work on yourself, it’ll never GO AWAY. If they can love you despite that statement, they’re a real keeper 💕 but remember, always be trying to better yourself too. Meds/therapy/journaling is my holy trinity. And it wouldn’t hurt to get evaluated every so often… just found out i PROBABLY have ASD in addition to bipolar, which explains a lot, and helps my wife to understand too.