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dolphinblues

Updated 1y ago

Dealing with Emotional Numbness

Has anyone ever "shut off" their emotions to the point that you can't react in a way that you should? For instance, something extremely sad and life changing happens, but you are just numb and going through the motions without crying at all. Sort of acting like it's "business as usual " or part of daily routines. You feel sad and tear up, but cannot let it all out and actually cry.

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Miah77

2y

Yes I've been there. And sorta still am.... I cry during a sad movie, well tear up. Yet if a friend dies Im like damn that sucks. I'm sad though a part of me doesn't miss them and a part of me does.
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dolphinblues

2y

it sucks. It affects so much of my life and I only recently realized it. I'm just like "oh, ok.", and just keep going about my business. It's like I have become a drone.
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Miah77

2y

They have helped me tremendously. With depression and emotional health
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skooshy

2y

There came a point, about 6 years ago, that I felt like I was all cried out and had nothing left to give where sadness is concerned. Even when I am sad it is very hard for me to express it or even cry. I feel almost like that specific part of me is dead for lack of a better way to phrase it. Don't get me wrong I have empathy for others, but I can't cry when I know if I felt normal like I used to than I would be able to. I feel weird even admitting this.
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dolphinblues

2y

I can imagine it does feel weird admitting it. It was really weird when I realized how long it has been since I shut down emotionally. And to actually tell my counselor about it was hard. I felt broken and like I was wrong for being/feeling that way.
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skooshy

2y

I am so glad your counsler gave that to you. It is very true! You do have the right to feel how you do and it doesn't make it wrong or bad. I remember doing an exercise where we would say "I feel" instead of "I think" and that kind of blew me away because it changed the context so much! I have always tried to remember that especially when it comes to disagreements with my spouse or my children (two are adults and one is a teen) and it has helped express myself so much more. I like the idea of watching sad movies so you experience crying because of them. That is a great experiment/exercise to do. I guess I never thought of trying that so thank you for that! How is everything else going for you?
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dolphinblues

2y

I like the "I feel" statements too! It really does change the dynamics of conversations. I have used them with my husband and grown kids as well. I'm teaching my granddaughter to use them too. She is 11 and I have had guardianship of her since she was 3. How am I doing otherwise? Over the last 2-3 weeks I have been super tired all the time. Like, I can hardly keep my eyes open at times kind of tired. And have had a headache every single day. It varies in intensity, but is always there. I feel like I can't catch a break. UGH.
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dolphinblues

2y

How are you things with you?

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