Wow I hasn't considered sexual side effects 😬 I'm a guy so libido isn't really a thing for me and idk if it works similarly for whatever the other one is called. I just started a month or two ago because the Escitalopram I've been on for years hasn't shown to be helping my depression and I can't take any higher dosages. I was cross tapered onto effexor and it was kind of unstable with mood swings and depression. I don't tell anyone this but a lot if it has to do with girls and dating, although I'm not sexually active or anything, and I have been feeling in the pits lately like in the last week or so because I'm finishing weening off the Escitalopram. I also didn't know I had to eat with it but I have noticed that on the days I haven't eaten anything till supper (I never have lunch so when I skip breakfast) I have very little energy and just want to lay in my bed all day and it's hard even getting myself to take a shower. This seems like mostly women and I'm sorry if this is weird for yall but does anyone know if this has similar effects on men? Admittedly I do do porn sometimes because it fills that void for the moment but I try not to, not only for moral reasons, but also because it makes me even more depressed immediately after because I can't get that stuff in real life. I don't really consider it as being sexually active though because I don't have a partner to do anything with and I don't do porn that often (or try to) but I do think I might have early ED (at 29) because I don't have erections like 11 times a day which is apparently normal, more like every 11 days if that. I did muster the courage to talk to my doctor once who had a blood test done and I don't have low sperm count but I heard it could also be heart related and I know I have an extremely weak and low stamina heart and have for years. Again I'm sorry if this is offensive. It's really embarassing for me to bring up even anonymously but I wax wondering what other people thought, about ED and if effexor effects men sexually. It seems to be helping my depression slightly better than Escitalopram but I might not be taking it correctly it seems.