Hey, I’m in the same boat and i know its difficult to find others who can relate to this and understand what we go through on a daily basis. I’ve never tried anything other than shaving and waxing so i don’t know if ill be much help to you, i found that waxing isn’t as painful or stressful for me in the long run because it lasts longer than shaving i know this isn’t permanent sadly. I’ve heard a lot of people recommend spearmint tea/capsules for hirsutism and electrolysis