it's also funny because my brother also has ADHD and I'm sure both of my parents do too

a handful of stuff, really bad memory issues, unable to sit still for more than a few minutes, easily distracted, mind always racing with a million different thoughts

keep bringing it up, don’t let her dismiss it. Ask her if you found a lump in your breast but had previously found one that was a benign cyst, she’d prefer to focus on the existing diagnosis?

make it uncomfortable/embarrassing to ignore you. Whoever is checking you in and takes vitals, mention you plan to talk to your doc about ADHD, when making an appointment, bring it up. If you have to, start the conversation with her in a very loud voice and feign hard of hearing to her replies. “Excuse me, could you repeat that!” “I’m sorry, I can’t hear you!” “I may have a head cold, sorry if I’m shouting but I’m going to need you to do so too!” You deserve to be listened to.