For me, making a checklist for what bills/payments I have to pay that month, and I'm not allowed to spend on anything else but necesities till those are paid off. There are whiteboards you can get that are also calendars and have cork boards. That's my godsend for helping me keep track of what's what. And money I want to use specifically for fun stuff I use a separate account and/or have a set amount of cash per month I'm allowed to use. So say I know I have a total of 1,100 of bills I HAVE to pay per month, and I get biweekly payments of 1,250 (let's say about a total of 2,500 monthly). 2,500-1,100=1,400 that I can use for myself at the end. BUT before I take any of that for something else, I set aside car gas money (150, so 1,250), put at least half of that in my savings, leaves me with 625. Now, personally I'll put more of that away for myself or I'll put some extra towards the next month's bills so there's less to pay that month (there are usually options while you're about to make your payment that you can either just make that an extra payment or put it towards your total for the next month. So handy.). I try to keep say 100-300 in cash just cause you never know (emergency, cash tip, lost card, pay friend, etc.). Also bear in mind expenses like groceries and whatnot (varies depending on location but yeah).
Thats all just an example, but the biggest thing is making sure the most important stuff is taken care of before other things are purchased. Another big thing is not allowing yourself to just use your savings/credit card as a second checking account. They aren't. I knew that but decided to find out the hard way cause thats how i roll apparently.
You can also usually set reminders in your phone for them, especially setting up am auto pay or to set them so they are paid on the day of your paycheck.