Hi I'm new, but I had this issue then I used a lube a couple of times and after that I didn't need it anymore. Also have you thought about a girl's day and try the Yoni Steam for the Vag? I want to try one day I hear it helps with keeping everything tight and right. You will be fine dryness is a temporary thing

I’m so at the other end of the spectrum B I’ve found putting within arms lengt 😥

I use coconut oil as the occasional lubricant. It works wonders

maybe see a pelvic floor therapist who can evaluate the muscles and all down there. it really helped me.