The best people in life are people who care about personality and the people who care only about appearance are ******** who don't deserve your time.

One thing I like to keep in mind is that is general appearance is important to them, the they're likely to be shallow and not good to be around. If it doesn't bother them, then they are probably more invested in the personality

I don’t find all my friends physically attractive, but also I don’t care because that’s not why I’m friends with them

Honestly, we all have those thoughts. There is always something about us we wish we could change/improve. I am extremely shy and doubt myself all the time, replaying conversations in my mind and redoing them shy. It got easier with age, i now started to not give a crap 🙂 Hang in there