Some do! It really depends on the doctor. I have Aetna too. I will say that many of the online mental health services have psychiatrists and all appointments are virtual.

i also have aetna, the only appointments i have ever done with pdocs has been virtually! not sure if you know this website but psychologytoday is pretty good. you can look at therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists on there. you can also filter your insurance, your location, if you want lgbt+ friendly, and it will tell you if they offer video visits!

Go on Google maps type in psychiatrist then call and ask do you accept my insurance and do you do virtual appointments.